30 December, 2012

No regret. Move on

29 Nov. 2012

I kept petting a snake and thought that it was a dog. Just for my own dignity, I had to move away. I had to save my sanity and take a break. That break was a period for me to gather my sanity and move ahead with a new resolve and new purpose. Determined not to look back with regret. Determined not to feel ashamed about the biggest mistake of my life- the mistake of judging someone wrong. Determined not to hate myself for petting a snake, thinking that it was a dog.
A rape victim should not feel guilty. A rapist should. Similarly, If I am wronged, I should not feel guilty and hide. The one who did wrong, should feel ashamed. Not me.