23 February, 2014

A relationship that is a bit too crowded

Princess Diana said, "There were three of us in the marriage. So it was a bit crowded." Words spoken so simply and state of fact. Yet, they ring a bell. We have all heard of relationships where there are more than just the two. What is it to be in a relationship that is wee bit too crowded?

Such relationships can break you and finish you. Two is a company and three is a crowd. It takes only two to Tango. You might love this man/woman a lot but eventually, all you will get is, hurt. Have the courage to say NO. Life is to be simplified and not made complicated. You had rather be alone, feel unloved and lonely than be in a relationship and still feel the same. Never lose yourself while trying to hold on to someone who does not care about losing you. If you are going to stay, then stay forever, if you are going to leave then do it today. If you are going to talk then make sure that you mean every word of what you say. Follow your inner voice, your heart, your conscience and your intuition. Nothing else matters. The couples that are meant to be are the ones that go through everything that is designed to tear them apart and they come out stronger.